Men's Small Group Questions

How to use these questions: Print these out and cut them up so that each individual question is on a slip of paper. Put them into a container and have them available at your Men's Small Group meetings. When appropriate (probably not every meeting), each guy should draw one out randomly without seeing the question, and then answer it.

What was your biggest joy recently? Did you thank God?

What are you wrestling with in your thought life?

Did you worship in church this week?

In what ways have you launched out in faith since we last met?

Do you have goals? Have you been working towards your goals this week?

Have you been parenting with the future in mind this week or have you just been focused on the present?

Are you proud of how you have handled your child/ren this week?

Have you said sorry easily when you made a mistake lately?

With their love languages in mind, what have you done recently for each of your family members?

When did you last have a date with your spouse? When did you last have a ‘date’ with your son or daughter?

What would be the one thing you would find the hardest to sacrifice or give up to God? (What can’t you live without?)

What emotion do you find the hardest to handle, or has the strongest hold on your life?

When did you last tell your family members you love them?

Have you gone out of your way to welcome someone new to church, to your neighbourhood, workplace, or interest group recently?

Have you been handling things proactively or reactively lately?

What particular situation would you like to be able to handle better than you do at present?

Is there someone who needs your prayer covering right now? Stop and pray for them.

In what ways has God blessed you this week? What disappointments consumed your thoughts this week?

Pick someone here today and tell them what qualities you most admire about them.

How have you been tempted this week? How did you respond?

In what ways are you disappointed with God or your ministry?

What have you done for someone else this week?

What thoughts rob you of enthusiasm?

Did you control your tongue this week?

What is the one thing you really need to hear from God right now?

What was your biggest disappointment this week? How did you decide to handle it?

How often do you pray with your wife? How often do you confess your temptations to her?

What is the one thing you fear the most?

What Scripture is on your heart this week? How does it apply to your life?

Did you take time to show compassion for others in need this week?

What type of person do you have an instant dislike for?

Did you pray and read God’s Word this week? What did you derive from this time?

What feelings cause panic or rage to rise?

What did you do this week to enhance your relationship with your wife?

What subject do you find hardest to discuss with your wife, and why?

Have you shared your faith this week? How?

What is the question you have no answer for today?

What significant thing did you do for your wife and/or family this week?

How has your relationship with Christ been changing?

What is the best thing that could happen in your life?

Which one sin plagued your walk with God this week?

What is the No. 1 prayer need you have this week?

“If a thing’s worth doing, it’s worth doing badly while I get better at it.” Is this true for you?

Do you treat your peers and co-workers as people loved by God?

Do you have a need that can be supplied from your friends, here today?

Did you pray for others in this group this week?

How’s your prayer life and Bible reading going?

Did you put yourself in an awkward situation with a member of the opposite sex this week?

Describe your dream day. Have you written it down or planned how to get it?

How do you cope with feelings of disappointment? (TV, retail therapy etc)

From 1-10, how do you rate your communication ability with your wife? Why?

Are you satisfied with the time you spent with the Lord this week?

How much time did you spend in prayer this week?

What family mottos (ie. children should be seen and not heard) have left an impression on you?

What things that people do, really “presses your button”?

What do you see as your number one need for next week?

Did you look at a member of the opposite sex in the wrong way this week?

At any time lately, did you compromise your integrity?

Did you accomplish your spiritual goals this week?

What is the thought that stings you the most at the moment?

How have you demonstrated a servant’s heart lately?

Are the ‘visible’ you and the ‘real’ you consistent?

Are you giving to the Lord’s work financially?